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My New Year Resolutions/Intentions

Family Jan13

“Good resolutions are simply checks that men draw on a bank where they have no account”. Oscar Wilde

I disagree, 2013 is upon us. I kept 80% of the resolutions I made last year and am working on the 20% ( I have included those in 2013 resolutions) but this year I am calling them intentions, as intentions are positive and hopeful

The new year is always a significant time when it comes to personal change, but this new year, just like the last, has extra significance.

I have been a mum for 2o months now, it’s been an amazing rollercoaster.  In 2013 I intend to:-

  • Spend more quality time with H and DH
  • Be more relaxed about things ( not plan too much – throw away some unnecessary lists and try to go with the flow)
  • Don’t sweat the small stuff
  • Spend quality time with my good friends without DH & H – ( Spending social time with people who know you and ‘get you’ is not only revitalizing but reminds you how great and loved you are) .
  • Train twice (or maybe even thrice!) a week for the Ealing Half Marathon
  • Turn up for the park run every other Sat ( 5K run)
  • Do the mother’s day parachute jump for NCT and raise lots of monies…
  • I want to enhance my part as  a “social influencer”  blogger – I have been writing and talking on facebook & twitter about Give as you live my charity of choice is  Great Ormond Street Children’s Hospital.
  • Write more on my blog and read/visit more blogs.
  • Make sure the house is a bit cleaner and tidier (hire a cleaner)
  • Go green – more cloths less kitchen roll
  • De-clutter – “Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful.” William Morris

I read this quote somewhere, I intend to live it “Happiness is not a destination, it’s a way of life

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The Christmas TAG


I saw this on a few blogs and thought I would give it a go…..You can find the original at Makeup-Pixi3

Q.   What’s your favourite thing about Christmas?
I don’t think I could pick one thing…It’s a collection of things which make up the great Christmas feeling…The tree, the drama of shopping, the food, the opening presents & days off work:)
Q.   What’s your favourite makeup look for the festive season?
A bit more sparkly than usual – glitter & gold!
Q.   Real tree or fake tree?
I would love a real one but don’t think I could cope with the mess, so it’s a fake one for us!
Q.   Giving presents or receiving presents?
Giving, I love the buying and wrapping the presents up then seeing the H & DH ‘s face when they open they presents:)
Q.  Do you open your presents Christmas morning or evening?
Morning, the joy of having a toddler. Do people actually wait till the evening to open presents?
Q.   Handmade Christmas cards or bought?
Brought, working mummy, no time:(
Q.   What’s your favourite Christmas film?
Hard to pick just one….It’s a choice between Elf & It’s a Wonderful Life.
Q. What’s your favourite Christmas song? (mine)
Just one , All I Want For Christmas Is You & Last Christmas
Q.   What’s your favourite Christmas food?
I have so many,  love Christmas dinner. We usually have it for a couple of days re-heated or in sarnie. I also love mince pies & Christmas Cake!!
I hope you have enjoyed this…..If you do this tag, please do link back:)
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Arriving Home


Hanna Kathleen Richmond (girl)
Born 14/04/2011, at 4:04 a.m.
4 lbs 11oz and  50 CM
The proud parents: Robert and Nimo Richmond

By the time we left the hospital 2 day later, you weighted 4lbs 4oz, just perfect. They say all the best things come in small packages and you were a very tiny package.

As I type, you are a sleep next to me and putting on weight beautifully, I can see you filling out your clothes and in the 10 weeks you has been in this world. You have almost outgrown your first babygro, albeit for a tiny baby and you don’t seem so delicate anymore. I was scared to touch you when you were  born, your legs were so skinny. I felt like I was going to break them when changing your bottom and hurt your back when picking you up. You are even developing those cute little baby chubby cheeks now, so I know I am doing an “ok” job at this wonderful role.

I love dressing you up in all the beautiful gifts from family and friends,  you are just fitting into Newborn sizes. I am sure it will not be long before the photos are popping up of you in lovely pink outfits. I have been nosing at some very cute boutiques to get you some special clothes, so watch this space.

Questions every daughter should ask her mother

I borrowed some of these questions from Elma van Vliet, reading about her as I am sat here pregnant with my first child.  The reason I felt the need to put this down is I lost my mum 5.5 yrs ago and I miss everything about her. Tonight what I miss most is the random conversations we used to have late at night. I wish I asked her many questions about herself as 99% of the time we spoke about me. I truly regret that….

Ladies if you ever visit my blog please read this page and talk your mum. Ask her the questions below and write down the answers. Here are some of my answers, my plan is to sit down with my uncle AR and ask him the questions I haven’t got answers to and add them here.

  • What kind of parents did you have? Were they progressive or old-fashioned? Very progressive for their time.
  • What are the most precious memories you have of your mother or father? Many, my father (my Gran dad) – the eloquent way he told stories (charming), my mum (gran mum) – her generosity and loyalty.
  • Were you an easy-going or rebellious teenager? Very easy.
  • Have you ever had your heart-broken? How did you cope? Yes, was too busy to dwell on my sadness.
  • What kind of child was I when I was little? Helpful and kind.
  • What are your best bits of advice on raising children? Relax and go with it.
  • What have you taught me that you are most proud of? Independence and your curiosity.
  • What changed in you when you had children? Everything in my life came second.
  • How did this change affect your relationships? Some people thought I shouldn’t have given up everything for my children.
  • If you had the chance to change one thing about the way you were raised, what would it be? I would have stayed in school ( this wasn’t her choice, girls were not deemed as important as boys to educate).
  • What do you think everyone should have seen or done in their lifetime? Travel the world and experience life before you settle down and have children – Live first!
  • Do you have any regrets? Few
  • What would you have done differently?
  • Was my father the love of your life?

More than anything in this post I am trying to honor and celebrate my mum. It makes me realise that I really miss her, especially at this time.

As much as for myself, I am doing this so my daughter does not one day wonder…

I will try to put in paper my thoughts and journey so my child/children can have something they can retain as a keepsake.

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